July 2009

BlogHer is happening this week and I’m not going. BUT, if I was going I would definitely be attending this panel discussion: “How can your blogs be a conduit to transformation?” Heather from MAMAvision, Carla Birnberg, aka MizFitOnline, Claire Mysko, Kate Harding, and Roni from Roni’s Weigh will lead the panel discussion.

I think we all can testify to the fact that blogging can definitely encourage and motivate someone to learn, grow and change in a positive way. I really started thinking about it though when I read the rest of the session description: “In a society where more young girls fear becoming fat than they fear cancer, nuclear war, or losing their parents, some bloggers are taking a stand against teaching their children learned behaviors that affect their body image.”

Think about that.

We are bombarded daily with images that tell us that we can be healthier, more successful, have a better job, cool friends, a better career (the list goes on & on) if we were skinnier, had bigger breasts, different eyes, fatter lips.

These images reach young girls who begin to believe they aren’t okay as they are. That they need to change. When they should be chasing butterflies and reading Ella Enchanted they start to question the way they look and to equate their physical image with their self-worth. If the goals presented are unattainable then how do you feel worthy?

Heather, Carla, Claire, Kate and Roni want to discuss the impact we as bloggers can have on this unattainable and market-driven ideology.

We can do something. We can write about the reality of women’s bodies. We can teach acceptance. We can reveal the ridiculousness of the fashion and marketing industry’s attempts to sell people a concept of beauty that is neither healthy, based in fact or accessible.

How to do this?

- Encourage taking care of our bodies we have and focus on a healthy lifestyle instead of constantly be trying to perfect something that is already wonderful.

- Point out role models of all shape and sizes that are successful and happy in their lives. Think America Ferrera from The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. There are lots more - find them, talk about them.

- Use examples of unhealthy body image concepts, commercials with anorexic models, ads to enhance body parts, as starting points for conversation regarding a healthier approach.

I love to show girls this video, short and to the point, from Dove (2006).

This is the reality behind the goal to be beautiful. There is no acceptance here of what is. Only the need for modification.

Not to mention unnecessary.

We can promote companies, products and people that encourage healthy self-awareness and realistic achievable goals.

Wouldn’t it be great if we all wrote in a way that that didn’t perpetuate this myth of not being “good” enough?Helping others always leads to learning with those you are teaching. Helping younger women and girls learn and encourage self acceptance can only be a positive experience and a lesson in acceptance for ourselves.

Thank you for all your work in putting together this panel discussion. Friday July 24th at 1:15-2:30 I won’t be there. Will you?

Remember we don’t have to be there to participate. What will you do to “step up & guide the next generation as best we can [so that there is]… hope for change?”

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